Death (and Life) Cafe: an opportunity to discuss our inevitable mortality

 
Third Saturday of each month @ 10:30 am
Location:Scottville Library, 204 E State St, Scottville, MI 49454
 
 

At a Death Cafe, people drink tea, eat cake, and discuss death. The aim is to increase awareness of death to help people make the most of their (finite) lives.

A Death Cafe is a group directed discussion of death with no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a discussion group not a grief support or counseling session.

Death Cafes are offered:

  • On a not for profit basis
  • In a respectful and confidential space
  • With no intention of leading people to any conclusion, product or course of action
  • Alongside refreshing drinks and nourishing food – and cake – your own in this case!

If you find this event of value and desire to support future gatherings, there will be an opportunity make a donation.

How to use The Five Wishes Booklet for Your Advanced Directives

Monday, March 16th, 1:30 pm – 3:00 pm

Scottville Area Senior Center, 140 S Main St, Scottville, MI 49454

Phone: 231-757-4705 

Cost: $10—includes Guide book

 
 

Why choose using the Five Wishes guide to put into writing how you wish to be cared for towards the end of your life:

  • It’s written in everyday language, making it easy to understand and complete.
  • It covers personal, spiritual, medical and legal wishes all in one document.
  • It allows your family or caregiver to know exactly what you want, so they don’t have to guess
  • It’s legally valid in nearly every state

Facilitated by:

Marie Stycos of MIndful Passages LLC

Photo by Saulo Meza on Unsplash

Life and Mortality:  Taking charge of your comfort at end of life

Monday, April 20th, 1:30-2:30 pm

Scottville Area Senior Center, 140 S Main St, Scottville, MI 49454

Phone: 231-757-4705 

Cost: $10—includes Guide book

 
 
  • Have you considered where and how you want to be cared for as you approach your mortal end?  
  • Does your family know how you wish to be cared for in your final months, weeks, or days? 
  • Do you know what your options are?  
  • Why think about this now?

You are invited to join in the exploration and discussion. 

 Presentation by:

Marie Stycos of Mindful Passages. 

 

Photo by DEAD GOOD LEGACIES on Unsplash

Life and Mortality: What to Do with a Dead Body?

Monday, May 18th @ 1:30 – 3 pm

Scottville Area Senior Center, 140 S Main St, Scottville, MI 49454

Phone: 231-757-4705 

Cost: Donation

 
 

Most people believe that one’s body must be embalmed and that being buried in a cemetery under a cement vault is the only way to be buried.  Some are aware that they may donate their body to science as a means of disposition of the body after death. Yet these are not the only ways of body disposition after death – let’s talk about them.

  • Learn about new and evolving options for body disposition 
    • Donation, Burial, Fire, Earth or Water
  • Learn about ecological implications of our choices for disposition of a body
  • Learn what options are available in the Ludington area
  • Consider which options are best for you

 

 Presentation by:

Marie Stycos of Mindful Passages. 

 

Photo by Saulo Meza on Unsplash

Life and Mortality: Taking charge of your comfort at end of life

Tuesday, March 17th, 2 pm – 3 pm

Cost: Donation

Ludington Area Senior Center, 308 S Rowe St, Ludington, MI 49431 

Phone: 231-845-6841

 
 
  • Have you considered where and how you want to be cared for as you approach your mortal end? 
  • Does your family know how you wish to be cared for in your final months, weeks, or days? 
  • Do you know what your options are?  
  • Why think about this now?

Please join the exploration and discussion. 

 Presentation by:

Marie Stycos of Mindful Passages. 

How to use The Five Wishes Booklet for Your Advanced Directives

Tuesday April 21st @ 2 pm – lasts 60-90 min

Cost:$10 (Includes Booklet)

Ludington Area Senior Center, 308 S Rowe St, Ludington, MI 49431 

Phone: 231-845-6841

Presented by:

Marie Stycos of Mindful Passages

 
 

Why choose using the Five Wishes guide to put into writing how you wish to be cared for towards the end of your life:

  • It’s written in everyday language, making it easy to understand and complete.
  • It covers personal, spiritual, medical and legal wishes all in one document.
  • It allows your family or caregiver to know exactly what you want, so they don’t have to guess
  • It’s legally valid in nearly every state

Facilitated by:

Marie Stycos of MIndful Passages LLC

 

Photo by DEAD GOOD LEGACIES on Unsplash

Life and Mortality: What to Do with a Dead Body?

Tuesday May 19th, 2 -3:30pm

Cost: Donation

Ludington Area Senior Center, 308 S Rowe St, Ludington, MI 49431 

Phone: 231-845-6841

 
 

Most people believe that one’s body must be embalmed and that being buried in a cemetery under a cement vault is the only way to be buried.  Some are aware that they may donate their body to science as a means of disposition of the body after death. Yet these are not the only ways of body disposition after death – let’s talk about them.

  • Learn about new and evolving options for body disposition 
    • Donation, Burial, Fire, Earth or Water
  • Learn about ecological implications of our choices for disposition of a body
  • Learn what options are available in the Ludington area
  • Consider which options are best for you

 

 Presentation by:

Marie Stycos of Mindful Passages. 

Future Life and Mortality Topics:

Each presentation will be 30 to 45 minutes followed by discussion 

  • Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care – what it is and why it is important.
  • What is a good death.
  • Talking to your family about your final wishes: How’s and Why’s.
  • Supporting others so they have the good death they desire.
  • Developing your personal end-of-life comfort plan.
  • DNRs, ANDs, DPOAHs, POLSTs and Living Wills – What!!!!
  • Fallacies about grief.
  • Tips for supporting someone who is grieving .
  • Medicalized Death: What; Why; Avoid or not? 
  • An expected death is not an emergency: Ways to keep it so.
  • Greening your death: Earth, Water or Fire?
  • Leaving messages for loved ones.
  • Legacy projects/work: the many faces of leaving a legacy.
  • Can reflecting on death give more meaning to life now?
  • Who does What and When: Primary Care, Palliative Care, Hospice Care, End-of-Life Doulas.
  • Assuring that your end-of-life plans align with your valuesSupporting the grieving child.

Presentation by Marie Stycos of Mindful Passages.

 
 
 
 
 

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